very interesting... this running the flame thingy. I have never done so. I would assume that this would dry the wrapper a bit. I would be afraid it might make the wrapper prone to "unraveling" while smoking it... have you ever experienced this?
Other than that, i like the idea of your own little ritual. if it adds pleasure to your smoking experience, i'm all for it. i'm going to take only the first part of churchill's suggestion, however, and just stick to warming up my woman before i smoke her.