Again with the "wealth = happiness = proof of love".
Victor, you can be intelligent on a lot of subjects. This isn't one of them. I can't decide chicken-or-egg: whether you won't have kids because you don't get it, or if you don't get it because you don't have kids.
Either way, you're in over your head.
And that's not to say that many parents DO put their wants over their children's needs.
But nobody grows up with mental issue because mom and dad took too many vacations.
The kids emotional future is more often mortgaged by lack of attention or some other means unrelated to "wealth".
One day you might fall in love with some rugby playing chick. Or maybe just a regular hooker.
You might get married and you might know deep inside that you'd give anything to make her happy.
Then one day, you buy a box of $250 cigars for yourself. Or heck, make it a $25 bundle for your buddies.
Do you now love her less? Couldn't that money have gone to her happiness instead?
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