teedubbya
Friday, August 1, 2014 10:24:28 AM
(CNN) -- After letting her 7-year-old son walk from their home to a park to play, a Florida mother faces up to five years in jail for child neglect.

Nicole Gainey, 34, was arrested on July 26 after her son, Dominic, was found by police alone in a park less than a half-mile from her Port St. Lucie home.

On Saturday afternoon, Gainey had given Dominic permission to walk to Sportsman's Park, a route he's familiar with since he uses it to ride his bike to school, her lawyer said. On the way, he passed a public pool, and someone asked him where his mother was.

"They asked me a couple questions, and I got scared, so I ran off to the park and they called the cops," Dominic Guerrisi told CNN affiliate WPTV.

Nicole Gainey was arrested after sending her 7-year-old son, Dominic, to park alone.

Dominic was frightened by the police attention, his mother said.

The cell phone and holder that Dominic carries at his mom's instructions.An officer arrived at the park where Dominic was playing a short time later.

"Dominic checked in with his mom a few minutes before the police came and was getting ready to go home for dinner," said Gainey's attorney, John Whitehead, founder of the Virginia-based civil liberties group the Rutherford Institute.

He always has a cell phone with him and was wearing it in a case around his neck that his mother had made. According to Whitehead, the phone had fallen out of his pocket recently and she didn't want him to lose it.

When the officer asked Dominic whether his mother knew where he was, the child told him that she did and he'd just spoken to her on the phone, according to the police report.

Dominic told the police his name, address and mother's name but wasn't able to answer when asked for his date of birth. He was then driven home.

Mom arrested after leaving 9-year-old alone at park

"When I saw the police cars pull up in my driveway, and the officers started asking me about Dominic, I was frantic to know whether he was OK," Gainey told CNN in an e-mail.

According to the report, Gainey told the officer that she let her son go to the park alone once or twice a week.

The arresting officer said that Gainey had failed to provide her son with care and supervision by allowing him to cross the street and go to the park alone. According to the report, he told her that there had been recent criminal activity in and around the park and a number of sex offenders lived nearby.

Gainey was arrested on a felony child neglect charge and taken to jail, leaving Dominic and her 17-year-old daughter at the house with her boyfriend. She was released seven hours later on $3,750 bond.

Mom accused of leaving child in park

Homeless mom arrested after interview The Port St. Lucie Police Department has not responded to requests for comment.

As of Thursday afternoon, Gainey's attorney still hadn't received notice of a preliminary hearing. A representative from the Florida State Attorney told CNN that the case hadn't been assigned to a prosecutor yet.

"This is a small town and a safe area," Whitehead said. "Nicole knows she's not guilty of anything, and she'll plead that way if it comes to it."

On Wednesday, Gainey met with an employee from the Florida Department of Children and Families who told her the charges would likely be dropped, according to Whitehead.

"I'm really sad about how this has already impacted our family," Gainey wrote in an e-mail to CNN. "My son is worried that I'll get in trouble if he goes outside. I'm even worried about getting in trouble if I let him walk down my driveway alone."

A number of child neglect arrests are gaining attention nationwide, with some onlookers arguing local authorities are overstepping bounds in arresting parents for childrearing decisions that wouldn't have merited notice a generation ago or which plunge families close to the poverty line into even more dire situations.

"Something has shifted and now we're in the middle of a dangerous societal trend of arresting parents for noncriminal activities," Whitehead said.

Does leaving kids alone make parents criminals?

In early July, Debra Harrell of South Carolina made national news after being arrested after letting her 9-year-old daughter play unattended in a nearby park while she worked.

She lost her job at McDonald's but has since gotten it back and regained custody of her child, according to her attorney, Robert Verner Phillips. She's awaiting trial, and the Department of Social Services case against her is still open.

In March, Shanesha Taylor was arrested in Scottsdale, Arizona, on two counts of felony child abuse after leaving her two children in her Dodge Durango for about an hour while she interviewed for a job.

On July 18, she reached a settlement with the Maricopa County Attorney's Office dismissing her case if she completes a diversion program. Along with parenting and substance-abuse classes, Taylor is required to establish education and child-care trusts for each of her three children, two of which are still in state custody.

Florida's child neglect statute has no age written into the law. Many states do not specify an age at which a child can be legally left at home or allowed to go places alone. This leaves some parents unsure of when it's appropriate or even legal to leave a child unsupervised.

The Florida Department of Children and Families said in a statement that people who believe they've witnessed a case of neglect can call a hotline to report it.

"The hotline can be called when a child of any age is without adult supervision or arrangements appropriate for the child's age or mental or physical condition, so that the child is unable to care for the child's own needs or another's basic needs or is unable to exercise good judgment in responding to any kind of physical or emotional crisis," according to the statement.

But the resource is little help to parents who are trying to figure out at what age they can legally allow their children to go out into the world alone.

"Parents I talk to are nervous about doing anything, thinking they could get charged for something without knowing what they're doing wrong," Whitehead said.

DrafterX
Friday, August 1, 2014 10:30:43 AM
prolly illegals.... 😟
Gene363
Friday, August 1, 2014 10:38:00 AM

Sounds like the police kidnapped the child.

DrafterX
Friday, August 1, 2014 10:42:33 AM
I guess I was severely neglected when I was a kid... I walked or rode my bike at least a mile to school or the park.... uphill both ways too.... 😟
teedubbya
Friday, August 1, 2014 10:46:48 AM
Something about this one really pisses me off.

We are way too protective of our 9 year old girl and know it. We live in a small town and it's pretty safe. I think I'm too protective because I love the stuffin out of her. That said I worry about the consequenses of being over protective which can be negative as well.

This is just dumb and seems to me like a do gooder and over zealous cop need to go to the woodshed. I also realize there may be more to the story. But on the surface.....

teedubbya
Friday, August 1, 2014 10:48:05 AM
and as a kid I went further away from home than this kid did at that age nearly every day. I feel bad my little one does not have that freedom (recognizing times have changed)
DrafterX
Friday, August 1, 2014 10:54:13 AM
those damn do-gooders piss me off too.... 😠

the other day a lady in town got the police called on her for leaving her dog in the car with the windows cracked while she ran into the bank... she was in there about ten minutes they said but in that time police had arrived and were about to break her car window... and the temp that day was only about 90 I think... I'm not sure if she got a ticket or not but they're warning people that it's a $250 fine...

And yes, I'm all for giving the ticket to someone who deserves it... but ten minutes..?? 😟

TMCTLT
Friday, August 1, 2014 10:54:35 AM

I guess I was severely neglected when I was a kid... I walked or rode my bike at least a mile to school or the park.... uphill both ways too.... 😟

DrafterX wrote:

My brothers and I were allowed to ride our bikes approx.10 miles one way to our favorite fishing hole in the summer when school was in recess. It's too **** bad we're " MORE " interested in extending " rights " to supposed rehabilitated child molesters living amongst us than we are @ allowing kids their RIGHT to travel about FREELY!!!

teedubbya
Friday, August 1, 2014 11:08:56 AM
A few years back I left out other daughter in the car (she was 10) while I ran in to the grocery store to grab a loaf of bread. It was in the 70 degree range and I locked the car. She was listening to the radio. Someone called the cops who spoke with her through the cracked windows (she would not open the door for them because I told her to open them for no one). They came in the store and had me paged. They told me someone had called them and while they were not going to charge me with anything they had to file a report.

all of this in a 5-10 minute time frame.

I told them I hoped they could get to my home in that amout of time in the event of a real emergency.

teedubbya
Friday, August 1, 2014 11:11:05 AM
we have a registered perv living the street behind us behind us (sort of at an angle). he sits in the garage all day looking out towards the street. I feel a bit better that the neighbor directly behind us is a state trooper and his car is normally there. The neighbor on the other side of him teaches at the leavenworth officers school.
DrafterX
Friday, August 1, 2014 11:55:16 AM

A few years back I left out other daughter in the car (she was 10) while I ran in to the grocery store to grab a loaf of bread. It was in the 70 degree range and I locked the car. She was listening to the radio. Someone called the cops who spoke with her through the cracked windows (she would not open the door for them because I told her to open them for no one). They came in the store and had me paged. They told me someone had called them and while they were not going to charge me with anything they had to file a report.

all of this in a 5-10 minute time frame.

I told them I hoped they could get to my home in that amout of time in the event of a real emergency.

teedubbya wrote:

Damn do-gooders..!! 😠

Abrignac
Friday, August 1, 2014 12:04:43 PM
Sign of the times. From about 8 years old on, my mom would see me three times a day on non-school days, when I woke up and left the house, for lunch maybe, and when I came home. There were 4 boys in my neighborhood who lived no more than three houses apart. We would all get up and get on our bikes and ride all day. We may ride as far away as 2 miles to go to a movie, go to the Western Auto for a coke or ice cream, Griffon's for a burger, fries and a "real" fountain coke, the one where they poured the syrup in the top from a cardboard carton.

In our day main street was a 1/4 mile section of Range Ave. There were all sorts of stores, including a Western Auto and the Carrol theater. They've all been turned in to antique stores.

tailgater
Friday, August 1, 2014 12:07:14 PM

Something about this one really pisses me off.

We are way too protective of our 9 year old girl and know it. We live in a small town and it's pretty safe. I think I'm too protective because I love the stuffin out of her. That said I worry about the consequenses of being over protective which can be negative as well.

This is just dumb and seems to me like a do gooder and over zealous cop need to go to the woodshed. I also realize there may be more to the story. But on the surface.....

teedubbya wrote:

So it's OK for you to be over protective of your daughter because you "love the stuffing out of her".

But it's not OK for a concerned citizen to expect other parents to "love the stuffing" out of their kids?

It's this type of inconsistency that leads to so many f'd up laws.

teedubbya
Friday, August 1, 2014 1:05:17 PM

So it's OK for you to be over protective of your daughter because you "love the stuffing out of her".

But it's not OK for a concerned citizen to expect other parents to "love the stuffing" out of their kids?

It's this type of inconsistency that leads to so many f'd up laws.

tailgater wrote:

No. If your reading comprehension ever kicks in I think I am over protective of my child. It is well intended but I worry about the consequenses of that (it's all up there, go back and read... maybe your lips were tired). That said it is irrelevant. What I chose to do with my child (which I question) is not what others must do. I'm not even sure what I do is right. It's part of being a parent.

I don't want the government telling me how to raise my kid any more than I want them telling me when i can and can't leave my house and frisking me on the way out. You find things easier to swallow than I do. Probably because it's easier to pretend you are a conservative when surrounded by liberals which you secretly agree with much of the time.

red sox fans are special though.... I'll give you that.

tailgater
Friday, August 1, 2014 2:04:05 PM

Don't get all wadded up here.

I'm just pointing out the inconsistency. The fact that you recognize it shows that you're not being a hypocrite, so I'm not bashing you or questioning your motives. In fact I agree with your premise.

But I do question your ability to deflect a perceived slight.

You've been wound up tighter than pickled sphincter lately.

teedubbya
Friday, August 1, 2014 2:10:24 PM
lol

how you came up with the opposite of what I said is amusing. I wouldn't let my little one off the leash like that but have no issue with others that do. Perhapse I shoud allow more freedom to mine. None of that is relevant. Calling the police or them taking action is absurd. no hypocracy. just recognition that I should not impose my paranting style on others.

now go suck a pole LOL

tailgater
Friday, August 1, 2014 2:21:09 PM

lol

how you came up with the opposite of what I said is amusing. I wouldn't let my little one off the leash like that but have no issue with others that do. Perhapse I shoud allow more freedom to mine. None of that is relevant. Calling the police or them taking action is absurd. no hypocracy. just recognition that I should not impose my paranting style on others.

now go suck a pole LOL

teedubbya wrote:

Uh, I believe it was the tailgater who already said you're not a hypocrite. I don't know why you feel the need to defend yourself on that point.

teedubbya
Friday, August 1, 2014 2:22:02 PM
but I am a hypocrit so you take that back
Abrignac
Friday, August 1, 2014 2:22:42 PM
Joe & Tim, get a room.
teedubbya
Friday, August 1, 2014 2:23:33 PM
Joe is dreamy but I have Vic and ZRX. They get jealous