You know what? If he is good to you, if he respects you and he treats your family well, if you have common values and intrests you've got a good one. In all honesty most men are good ones. Its just the crappy ones are generally so crappy that they eclipse the good ones. When I met Rug I was in the process of splitting up with my first husband. The ex was a drug dealer and a philanderer. It took me 7 years, 4 of them married to the lout, to make me realize I deserve better than that. Once I realized that about myself the type of man I was attracted to, and attracted, changed. Self confidence is a powerful aphrodisiac!
Heather
