jim: the BOTL stuff *is* very much alive and kicking. but until you've hung out a bit and people have gotten the chance to get to know you, it really is a lot to expect for them to hand over something like that.
if you had a good, reasonable and reliable source, and you hadn't been busted for buying from them, would YOU give it to someone who just appeared in the forum one day and asked for it? i mean, not making accusations, but think about it for a minute -- you could be ANYONE. you could be a custom's agent harvesting the names of companies to flag for inspection when a box of theirs comes into the US, ya know?
and there's just the principle of the thing -- if someone came onto a forum and said out of the blue "hey, one of you BOTLs out there, send me a rolex watch!" and if no one ponied it up, would it be accurate to then say "well, guess that BOTL thing is a myth after all"?
well, consider this -- a good source is more valuable to many BOTLs than a rolex watch is. ๐
not trying to bust your chops; just trying to put it in perspective.