WB,Streetrod and Jsnyder- truly thankful for your thoughts and prayers. The invincible Mrs123 is grateful for all the well wishes from this amazing forum, she's tired of reassuring me she'll be fine. No rush on my bakesale, I just feel more useful towards the cause doing it. Will put some new stuff/list up after I dig through the big bin.

Benja, prayers out for your wife🙏🏻

Prayers and well wishes for Mrs123 and the family!

warm thanks to chazbo & marcus for the sentiments
all are being relayed to her
she's amazed and pleased with "my" little group of "boyfriends"

Praying for you guys

thanks Gummy- every prayer is appreciated

Sorry to hear this brother I will keep y'all in my Thoughts and Prayers.

thx Corey, I'll pass them on to the missus

so sorry to hear the terrible news about your wife...tell her that grammas are tougher than cancer....hmmm...betcha she already knows...

wishing her a full and speedy recovery and that you and your family stay safe and together through this trial...

hoping her primary oncologist is a George Clooney lookalike...I always felt better in the hospital when my nurses were easy on the eyes, especially the ones with low cut blouses...

Think ya gave him a new source of anxiety, Al

hehe
Thanks Delta for the diversionary tale/tail?
I thought her oncologist was a nice looking guy but she said not her type. The surgeon who placed the port was even shorter than her and alittle too touchy for my taste but he seemed competent. She'll end up using a female surgeon for major surgery after chemo. She is very pleased with her team.
Thanks to all who helped me out here, both emotionally and financially-I edited the list and I'm in pretty good shape here so not pity buying please! only if you actually want them.

pm sent

Package arrived with a surprise, thank you sir and continued 🙏🏻 For you both.

Got the box yesterday afternoon.

Mahalos for the hitchhikers! 👍

my thanks to everyone who helped!

Arrived this morning. Thank you for the extras. Continued well wishes for you and your wife.

package received, along with a few ride-alongs...thank you, David...

blessings for your wife...

Damn Benja, so sorry to hear this.
Hoping you can get through this with a positive outcome.

You've already proven yourself a generous and good-hearted guy.
I wish you and your wife the best...

jjkilburn and delta- appreciate letting me know items received and thanks again for helping me out with my cigarfund. It makes me feel like I'm doing something useful, not surprisingly Mrs123 is more worried about the extra cost for deductibles than her situation so this helps her feel less culpable-crazy right? Not like she asked for this. First chemo went extremely well, she is having none of the side effects they anticipated.
iIzon, your message and thoughts are appreciated.

Delta sent you PM when you have a moment

Benja, really happy to hear that the first round went well.