My dad has been in the hospital for a week for issues with his kidneys. It's been an ongoing issue for a few months. This one is the last attempt. They've been pumping him with fluids and antibiotics hoping that they would fire up again.
Got a call today from my brother today, the kidneys are not working. Options are to do surgery and get him on dialysis machine. He would need dialysis every other day (5 hrs on dialysis, one day to recover, then another 5 hrs the next day). Even then, maybe one year of keeping him alive on a machine.
Gotta do that family meeting this week to discuss options (or lack of options). Discussion with him, the doctors, mom, brother, sister and me (I'm gonna have to do it via video call.) Ultimately it's my Dad's decision on what to do. He has a DNR but he's responsive so the DNR is not applicable. He's going to have to make the final choice. As much as it sucks for me to deal with it, it probably sucks even worse for him to decide weather or not to sign off on his death warrant
I just hope I can be there to give him a strong hug before he passes.
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