^ both G42 and 43 only use a double spring…..
Rick grains only mean the weight of the projectile, target and self defense loads can come in most any grains that target loads are available in. The grain weight will effect recoil, terminal ballistic wise I don’t think it’s going to make a huge difference in a .380.
I’d look at YouTube videos of gel tests to find a bullet design that works well then see if you can find a couple different weights of that and see what’s she’s most comfortable with.
Hornaday critical defense is always good, Speer Lawman is a decent non hollow point (if your state is weird about that. If they aren’t Underwood’s Xtreme Defender (68 grain in .380) has some nasty hydrostatic displacement properties and is cover neutral (will go through a 2x4 and NOT fragment).
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