The "lounge" here is a martini bar that caters to cigar smokers and also sells some smokes, so I don't feel bad about not buying their expensive smokes. Not a big selection anyway, just teh "biggies". Seems like "downtown" smoke suppliers (this lounge and my downtown cigar shop) seem to charge a premium for being available to the spontaneous downtown smoker, the after work smoke, or after a sports event, or dinner and a play, just because you're downtown.
My local guy does allow us to BYO drinks, he even provides refrigeration and/or ice if the need arises. He's got a great smoking room in the back of the shop with nice "toys". Because of our acquaintance he has offered several cigars at VERY good prices, and for that I have gifted him some of my favorites he dosen't carry (yet). He has even offered "darkside" deals that I may have to take him up on (soon).
I agree with all, it just pays to do your local right, 'cause, what goes 'round comes 'round.