Your wife's cousin is a goalkeeper I take it?
Goalkeepers take and get the responsibility, personally and publically, for every goal let in regardless of what happened in the other 90+overtime minutes of the game. It is part of the position and it takes imho a mental giant to play the position.
Can you link to the article you refer to. I am curious to learn more about this.
It is typical though the primadonna striker that gets paid 6 times the keepers wage and gets the glory and the keeper ends up being the scapegoat.
One of the ugly sides to the beautiful game.
Good luck.
Castlewa