Okay, I think some of that may be directed toward me, so I'll respond: "Jane, you ignorant slut."
I understand you want to keep your secret club a secret. I had one in 4th grade with my friends, and we didn't want any new members either. It was easier to feel important that way.
Slim, this info is out there, and people are going to use it, like it or not. There's two ways they can go about it. 1) Google search. Find a merchant. Conduct transaction with no further education. We can all do that Slim. Is that what you want? OR we could 2) Research this particular type of transaction for WELL OVER 1 year. Compile a list of over a dozen potential merchants. Continue to do homework on the process, contacting PRIVATELY via email others who may be experienced in that particular type of transaction. Asking questions. Seeking advice. Making sure we're doing everything the right way.
Wouldn't that be better? It's going to happen (maybe not with me, because I'm not even sure I want to), and if people are left uneducated, what you predict will happen. However, as long as they're going to do it, the best thing is to seek advice from an experienced vet. The more you try to keep your secret club a secret, the worse it'll be.
Now, if you want to stay in your own little secret club, I have a great suggestion: Through the beauty of internet news, I stumbled across a website selling "artwork" created by women squirting paint enemas out of their butts on a canvas. Head on over there, and you would probably be the only one on this board supporting that merchant. Cheers!