thanks, shawn, for giving me the benefit of the doubt. speaks very highly of your lack of being judgmental.
lazygardner: did i call you lazy? if so it was to shorten your handle, and no offense was meant.
sorry that i can't provide citations for you from conversations i've had. you're always free to believe anecdotal evidence. i offer it as such -- nothing more or less -- in answer to your direct question to me on where i'd heard him spoken of as a "martyr."
you know, i wish that life was so black and white, but it's not. what i had was an opinion reached by PROCESS. and that process went like this:
1. read the article in the local paper, and it piqued my interest. the REPORTER was the one taking the rather accusatory stance -- don't shoot the messenger. 🙂 in all honesty, i was curious about what OTHERS made of this article -- pro OR con -- and that's the sole reason i had for posting it. well, that and i did think that it would bring out interesting thoughts from a group of folks whose opinions i tend to enjoy reading.
2. i thought that the points raised in the article were valid questions -- especially after talking to evangelical christians who cannot seem to spend enough money on mr. gibson's product, be it movie tickets, "official TPOTC" jesus nail necklaces, t-shirts, etc. these are not wealthy people, either, but they were TOUCHED BY MEL GIBSON'S PERSONAL PRESENTATION, and they do not feel exploited; they want to "help that poor man who gave his all" to make the movie.
i feel bad for such folks who send money to televangelists, too, and that's kind of the mindset i was developing about this -- it could be construed as being just like the televangelism "racket."
3. i felt a good dose of (self)righteous indignation at the thought of this multimillionaire just raking in the moolah by selling jesus. not "spreading the gospel" but literally SELLING JESUS.
4. i wondered what message all of the "official TPOTC" MERCHANDISE was sending out -- about the messiah, who was absolutely NOT a proponent of materialism by any stretch of the imagination.
5. after getting over my (self)righteous indignation, i realized that i was getting into a judgmental mindset -- and that is likewise not a christian attribute and is something i work to avoid. alas, sometimes i can only say "it's not for me to say" after i realize that i AM judging when it's NOT my place to do so.
so, yes, there was a "phase" if you will where i got into a judgmental place. i believe it was shawn's post that reminded me, though, that the whole thing is between mel and god, not between me and mel and god.
if you'd like me to confess my sin, then there you go. 🙂
hoagie, no disrespect to your wife, but i would be happy to debate her or any other pastor. i'm confident that the playing field would be level all around.