You, as the fulfiller of someone's request, needs to realize that the "hitchhikers", no matter how valuable, are not part of the trade - they are gifts which you gave willingly. If you sent them for reasons other than that, you probably should reconsider getting involved in trading, or, negotiate every single cigar that will be sent, including the "bonus" "hitchhiker" cigars down to the letter over email ahead of time and then send nothing more.
Was what he sent back to you an equitable return on the requested cigar(s)? Only you can make the judgment if a quantity of lower value cigars equals the smaller number of higher end cigar(s) that you sent.
If you do not feel that what you received was an equatable return for only the requested cigar(s) that you sent, then a private communication between you and the other party is the best way to handle it. In most instances you will find that people will attempt to make things right.
If you can not reach a private agreement on the resolution, then you need to carefully consider the ramifications of "outing" someone publicly on a forum, as this can backfire on you. This can also happen if you decide to involve this person's vet, as you are still outing that person, just privately. Most likely the vet will try to help you recover your cigars or be compensated adequately for them, but it's not their responsibility or liability to do such.
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Sunday, March 6, 2011 8:38:14 PM |
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