Gene363
Saturday, May 27, 2023 12:10:04 PM
[quote=8trackdisco]Game Changer to say the least. Long road, however you’ll be on the pavement, instead of the ditch you’ve been it foe half a century.

Hope with a Plan beats just Hope and continuous pain.

Early Congrats, Delta.[/quote]

+1

delta1
Sunday, May 28, 2023 6:13:53 PM
I reviewed the doctor's notes about our discussions during the visit. I remember her mostly positive discussion about the surgery and the potential for a favorable outcome of improved function and reduction of pain. Then I read this, from her "After Visit Notes":

"Consent: left thumb trapeziectomy with ligament reconstruction tendon interpostion and fcr

Surgical risks were reviewed with patient. Patient advised specifically that with or without treatment, there is no guarantee of being able to return to heavy work. Surgical risks to include but not limited to bleeding, infection, injury to nerves vessels or tendons, persistent pain despite surgical intervention, destabilization of the left thumb and wrist, requiring additional surgical intervention, failure to achieve desired pain relief or functional improvement, failure to return to previous level of function, anesthetic risks to include but not limited to death were discussed. Patient wishes to proceed with surgical intervention"

Pretty sure we didn't go into the risks as described, but those are applicable to most types of surgery...just a little caution to go with the hope...

8trackdisco
Sunday, May 28, 2023 7:52:46 PM
[quote=delta1]I reviewed the doctor's notes about our discussions during the visit. I remember her mostly positive discussion about the surgery and the potential for a favorable outcome of improved function and reduction of pain. Then I read this, from her "After Visit Notes":

"Consent: left thumb trapeziectomy with ligament reconstruction tendon interpostion and fcr

Surgical risks were reviewed with patient. Patient advised specifically that with or without treatment, there is no guarantee of being able to return to heavy work. Surgical risks to include but not limited to bleeding, infection, injury to nerves vessels or tendons, persistent pain despite surgical intervention, destabilization of the left thumb and wrist, requiring additional surgical intervention, failure to achieve desired pain relief or functional improvement, failure to return to previous level of function, anesthetic risks to include but not limited to death were discussed. Patient wishes to proceed with surgical intervention"

Pretty sure we didn't go into the risks as described, but those are applicable to most types of surgery...just a little caution to go with the hope...[/quote]

Consider asking about those things. I noticed something similar (albeit a list not as long).

One thing I learned was these health systems live off of survey results. If they paint a rosy enough picture, the patient is more likely to speak positively.

Part and parcel of why 40% of the country is obese. Instead of saying you are fat, you need to lose weight, they instead mention you could lose some weight and then write in the medical record Advised patient for need of weight loss.

Slippery bastids.

8trackdisco
Friday, June 2, 2023 9:46:48 PM
Nearing the end of the line for dad.

Cannot speak. Growls instead of talking, frustrated he can get what he wants.

Transitioning into Hospice Care.

No more lab work, needle sticks or therapy.

No more nutrition, pain medications going into the feeding tube.

Mom is mostly a mess, sister is mostly good, me okay.

Gene363
Friday, June 2, 2023 9:53:09 PM
🙏 🙏 🙏
frankj1
Friday, June 2, 2023 10:30:51 PM
[quote=8trackdisco]Nearing the end of the line for dad.

Cannot speak. Growls instead of talking, frustrated he can get what he wants.

Transitioning into Hospice Care.

No more lab work, needle sticks or therapy.

No more nutrition, pain medications going into the feeding tube.

Mom is mostly a mess, sister is mostly good, me okay.[/quote]

no one is okay.

but everyone has their role that others count on. So it goes.

and there is nothing wrong with that, as long as everyone gets to deal with it as needed.

Everyone.

Family dynamics being what they are...

I really believe in you, my friend.

DrafterX
Friday, June 2, 2023 11:26:24 PM
very sorry 8... 🙏
Ram27
Saturday, June 3, 2023 12:09:09 AM
Keeping you and your family in our prayers Eight.

BuckyB93
Saturday, June 3, 2023 8:48:59 AM
Sorry to hear the news Russ. Thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Stuff like this is not easy to handle.
Stogie1020
Saturday, June 3, 2023 8:54:11 AM
Sorry to hear, 8. Lean on people when you need to.
dkeage
Saturday, June 3, 2023 10:15:51 AM
[quote=BuckyB93]Sorry to hear the news Russ. Thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Stuff like this is not easy to handle.[/quote]

This.. 🙏

MACS
Saturday, June 3, 2023 12:40:54 PM
[quote=8trackdisco]Nearing the end of the line for dad.

Cannot speak. Growls instead of talking, frustrated he can get what he wants.

Transitioning into Hospice Care.

No more lab work, needle sticks or therapy.

No more nutrition, pain medications going into the feeding tube.

Mom is mostly a mess, sister is mostly good, me okay.[/quote]

Damn... I'm really sorry to hear this, buddy. 😢

deadeyedick
Saturday, June 3, 2023 12:48:57 PM
Sorry to hear it Russ. Continued prayers for you and your family.
delta1
Monday, June 5, 2023 8:09:16 PM
Stay strong 8...your family needs you.
8trackdisco
Wednesday, June 7, 2023 8:16:02 PM
Dad passed away this morning @ 10:49.

Appreciate all the thoughts, prayers, juju, vibes etc.

From Brothers on and off of Cbid.

MACS
Wednesday, June 7, 2023 8:30:13 PM
Russ... ya know I'm here if you need to chat.

I'm very sorry for the loss of your dad.😞

Gene363
Wednesday, June 7, 2023 10:08:26 PM
My condolences for your loss and prayers for your family.
Stogie1020
Wednesday, June 7, 2023 11:22:08 PM
So sorry to hear, 8.
Ram27
Wednesday, June 7, 2023 11:53:19 PM
Russ, my sincere condolences on the loss of your father. May the Lord be with you and your family during this difficult period. You and your family will be in my prayers.
frankj1
Thursday, June 8, 2023 1:18:17 PM
sincere condolences from here as well, Russ.

sometimes we make donations to a favored cause or charity in memory of the loved one lost.

do you have any in particular you like to support?

I did a quick search for greyhound related causes but thought I'd bring it up for anyone else interested as well.