JLuv:
Bro. I am in the same boat! September 5, 2004. I am finally getting hitched after 37 years of bachelor-hood.
I've given this some serious thought and here's what I've come up with:
1. This is an event that neither you or 1/2 of your guests should miss. If you and your guests have to take the smoking festivities outside...guess what?? They'll be smoking while you get dragged back inside to cut the cake, etc.
Solution: Buy robustos. They're quick, and everyone loves them.
2. Like you, I am an avid cigar smoker. Some of my friends are as well, but most just say they are. These are the guys that will take two puffs for the pictures, and lay the thing down in the ashtray to die an untimely death. I HATE THAT!!
Solution: Get a great bundle, or two for that matter! Have the caterer display them in several wine glasses, or short tumbler glasses. They'll look like you spent a million. For your smoking friends keep a stash off to the side and distribute them on the down-low!
Issue solved!
Our reception at the Baltimore Waterfront Marriott ends at 11:00pm. From there we'll be retiring to the sweet sweet cigar bar in the lobby for the bigger vitolas...which I will provide for my serious smoking buddies.
Good luck man.
Craig
Baltimore