DNA check please, and I'm betting it's a he.
Regardless of gender, what is inside someone's head, usually just worms, is ethereal and only known by that person and subject to change. Not a suitable method of sexing people.
As for shock about the abuse, typical teenage oversimplification, everybody else is doing it, I'm invincible example of teenaged bad decision making. Perhaps, not unlike the decision to be a woman.
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