tony was a female who lived as a man in appearance and dress.
she suggested that he had a bad time of life for years because of illneses. i don't really know what her life was like, because so much of it was fantasy, but i know she found peace with sara. and i know i liked her as a him. she had a good sense of people and an understanding of how people should treat each other. you can see that in her posts. you could not call her a liberal or a conservative, you could only call her a humanist.