Perhaps get Dad to make sure you get some personal time.
As a grandparent, I am reasonably aware of how time consuming raising an infant is.
I also am aware that you must somehow make some time for just you.
Dunno how you can find it, but you must do so.
An hour here, an hour there - you have got to have some relief.
If not, it will drag you down.
you need it, you clearly have earned it, you owe it to yourself.
I suggest you not approach it as "smoke" time, but as personal time in which you often choose to smoke.
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