Talking about entitlement, talk to someone who has been in public secondary education for 25 plus years and get their take on the change in student and parent behaviors over the course of those years. You will probably find that when they entered the education field that, for the most part, the schools/teachers were supported by most parents. Now fast forward to the present day and the schools/teachers can't do anything right. Parents are now called helicopter parents who hover over their children blaming the school when Johnny doesn't get the A or make the team or get an award like one of his friends did. And the current problem is not coming from just one segment of the population but across the board. This is a classic example of how our society has evolved and why we give trophies for participation.
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Burner02 wrote:
I do know what you say to be true, but more so in certain districts, perhaps more divided by socio-economic dynamics, perhaps not. And all of us (yes, even me) feel we have a line on the world by our own immediate reality and experiences. But not all communities have been evolving in the same direction.
So, my wife recently retired (speech & language pathologist/speech "terrorist") from our town's school system with 35 years of beyond belief dedication behind her. One of our children is a 6th year high school English teacher in the same system. Their experiences differ re: changes from the op, not to say they are positive changes. But Helicopter Parents and entitled brats are not involved.
Yup, there are many kids that leave teachers stunned here, but here it's more likely from their parents expecting the teachers to teach discipline and respect instead of having taken care of that in the home before the kids reached school age...bear in mind I speak only of the problem kids, not an entire generation, but entitlement is not what is happening in our town. Our issues stem rather from parents working 3 jobs and likely no English spoken at home. Believe me, they'd love to be more involved but it may take another generation or two. These kids are not spoiled, soft, me me me American kids, yet. PTA meetings are very quiet affairs.
When we moved here 30 years ago, the population mix was good for us, the schools were excellent...fast forward to now and for whatever reason, the schools have bottomed out (recovering now finally) and the town has been hit harder than several of our more affluent neighboring towns. So in my immediate world, the good old days were way better, too. As it will be for my children when they become FOGS.
Same thing, only different!