Can't we all just.. get along..?? 😕

DrafterX wrote:

I brought up an event that happened. I never mentioned anyone specifically simply his encounter with law enforcement over a domestic battery type situation as an example of an apparent propensity to bully others with whom he disagrees with which seems consistent with posts he’s made here in the past directed at people with whom he disagrees.

The fact that you were around at point in time and know the players in the drama is one thing. But if you were not present when the event occurred then you have no direct knowledge of the actual incident in question. If you are privy to an affidavit of probable cause, witness statements and follow-up investigation narratives then I’ll stipulate that you know what happened. Absent that your opinion of my summation is just that an opinion.

One thing that I do seem to recall, perhaps I’m confused, was a post that John made here many, many months ago where stated that either him or his wife was going to jail and he decided he’d go because he felt he could handle it better. That doesn’t fit the narrative in the story he told most recently. The most recent story didn’t include any discussion of anything she did that would warrant her going to jail. So again I’m confused.

That said, I’m perfectly content to drop this. In fact, I had no intention of posting anything more regarding this a few posts back. But if someone wants to lecture me I’ll respond in kind. Otherwise consider this my last post on the subject.

By the way Thomas as I recall you and the person who brought this up the last time spent quite a bit of time hanging out together when the two of you lived near each other. In fact I recall him slipping a pic past the mods of a guy lying on the ground behind the two of you masterbating for which he earned a timeout. I don’t seem to recall you lecturing him back then. Not that it really matters.

Since I do intend this to be my last post unless…. In response to being called lowlife I’d like to say for the record it takes a real low life to physically assault a family member.

Abrignac wrote:

Have no fear Deputy Fife...you stick to peddling rumors and acting like you know something. You don't.

All you've done is show people what a lowlife you are.

DrMaddVibe wrote:

Have no fear Deputy Fife...you stick to peddling rumors and acting like you know something. You don't.

All you've done is show people what a lowlife you are.

DrMaddVibe wrote:

Then we’d miss our white knight protecting us from

EEEEEEEEEEEEE

VILLLLLLLE!!!!!!!

Anthony just quit digging the hole.

ZRX1200 wrote:

I was trying to not take a side…..while pointing out that this whole line of attack was a showing a complete lack of class on your part. I was trying to show something you weren’t now look where we are.

Me wondering if you gave your log in info to Victor.

You’re going to have to better if you think any of this is going to effect the way people that know, are going to see DMV or LHD.

ZRX1200 wrote:

Call me what ever you wish. It makes no difference to me. I know who I am and your feeble attempts to compensate for your shortcomings don’t affect me in anyway.

Besides for someone who tells someone else they need mental help it would seem you would be much more concerned with why you allowed your own behavior to escalate to the point where you would put your hands on a member of your own family to such a degree that it would lead to your mug shot appearing on the internet.

We can continue this back and forth if you wish. But at the end of the day you’ll just call me a low life or something else and I’ll just remind you that you apparently got arrested for physically assaulting a family member. I’ll take low life over family-member-assaulter everytime.

Abrignac wrote:

Have no fear Deputy Fife...you stick to peddling rumors and acting like you know something. You don't.

All you've done is show people what a lowlife you are.

You've got the entire unvarnished story and you want to believe what you want to believe. You are a repugnant person and vile for keeping up whatever it is you think you are doing. The same was done by others and at the end of the day, it did define them. Not me. The truth is unwavering. The truth stays the same. All you're doing is trying to pick scabs and open a deep wound that's been closed, scarred over and healed. You failed.

DrMaddVibe wrote:

A study by The National Institutes of Health reveals some startling statistics:

Bullying Type Percentage
Verbal 77%
Social Exclusion 54%
Physical 23%
This suggests that bullying is more psychological than we initially thought!

Here are some commonly observed psychological traits among bullies:

Low self-esteem
Lack of empathy
Aggressiveness
Difficulty following rules
View violence in a positive way

Understanding these elements is critical for tackling bullying at its root cause! Remember: Knowledge empowers us all to act effectively against such damaging behavior.

https://psychology.tips/why-do-people-bully/ 

Abrignac wrote:

Excuse me, you're describing yourself.

Then again...Have no fear Deputy Fife...you stick to peddling rumors and acting like you know something. You don't.

All you've done is show people what a lowlife you are.

DrMaddVibe wrote:

I don't have mugshot as a result of using violence against others. But I'm fairly certain you do.

Abrignac wrote:

Yeah, I was arrested. Not convicted. Why? Reread Post#1970. Its ALL THERE...clear as crystal...Because I did not hit my son. All I ever did was wrap up his punches and block his kicks. I keep telling anyone paying attention the same story. I don't have to fabricate a damned thing or how did you try to frame it?...a better version of what happened. You can believe what you want even if its wrong and you are.

DrMaddVibe wrote:

I haven’t tried to fabricate anything. In fact I’ve been very careful to avoid saying you did anything specific. Not once have I said you did this or that in regards to the incident. I’ve simply stated that you were arrested for a specific crime. In fact I even said absent reading an affidavit of probable cause, witness statements or follow-up reports neither I nor anyone not present really knows what happened. So there has been no accusation by me that you did anything.

Abrignac wrote:

Yeah you did. You've been going post to post dropping crap and this thread you couldn't contain yourself any longer. Go back and read every post since you even wanted to say I was attacking Russ! You've made accusations, innuendoes that worse people than you made here about the very same matter. That's on you. You don't hold any leverage over me, your opinions don't matter to me, you're so far from the reality of what happened and yet you STILL continue to harp on like you do matter. It's all there...go back and read it. You do not get to rewrite events of that day. You weren't there. I've told you in Orlando at Corona Cigars all of this and even had a post that was a diary of sorts. It chronicled the entire divorce like a diary from the day I filed till the day it was erased by someone with access to the server NOT BY ME. It was deleted because the very same person you still want to believe couldn't see forest for the trees and posted the arrest photo. I've been here for a real long time and one thing I don't have to do is lie. Either you believe me, or you don't. You don't. You want to recall an event that at the time was the lowest part I had ever felt. Going through a divorce yourself, I would think you could understand all of that, but it's lost on you. That's all on you. The only person that really gets it has already apologized and I totally forgive him. Not his fault. He was almost put up to it in order to lower me because she had already moved on. She could've handled it in a more adult manner, but she didn't and it got played out the way it did.

DrMaddVibe wrote:

What’s worse a person is believed to need mental help by someone who probably doesn’t have the appropriate training or credentials to make such an assessment or a guy that gets arrested for beating a family member?

Abrignac wrote:

Actually I found out the details when you and Victor got into a pissing match which led to him posted the link here. Not from any alleged “sharing” encounter.

As far your opinion of me I could care less. I care more about the slime a snail leaves in its trail than you or your opinions.

Why did I bring it up? That’s simple. Russ posted something and what did you do? You attacked him by posting that he needed mental help. It seems you attack anyone who disagrees with you. It’s seems you’ve done constantly since I joined the board twelve or so years ago. It would be my guess this is behavior that’s gone on far longer, but I don’t know, nor do I care. So I simply put it in to perspective of what sort of person you seem to be.

I don’t know the details of what led to your encounter with law enforcement regarding the matter. Nor am I interested in hearing your side. I worked in law enforcement long enough to know there are ALWAYS two sides to every story and the truth lies somewhere between them. But from what information has been available to me it seems it’s consistent with how you conduct yourself here which that of a person who attacks those with whom you don’t see eye to eye.

In terms of how the “board” views me that also is of no concern to me. For better or worse I am who I am and I live my life the way I see fit. If someone has a problem then they are free to block my comments. If someone disagrees with me, fine. I understand that people will disagree over all sorts of ideas. So I won’t lose a moment’s sleep either way.

Abrignac wrote:

Jamie I’m not going to debate. I said what I said. Let the chips fall where they may.

Abrignac wrote:

Should have been closed the day it started. The title says it all.

Abrignac wrote: