frankj1 wrote:get a vasectomy.
Went to a urologist in 08 and he wouldn't do it. Said I was too young and it's too permanent. Unless I already had kids or I was married and my wife had a condition where she should not get pregnant, he would not snip.
Went to a different one before we got married in 10. He said the same thing but if my to be wife would sign the consent, he would do it. She would not sign, told me she was religiously taking the pill, nothing to worry about. A year later she starts talking about kids.
Went to a urologist I don't particularly like or trust in 2011. Figured hed just do it without question. He said I'm married and under 35, wants wife approval. Didn't even ask her. Meanwhile she'd quit the pill and here we are.
Brought up vasectomy last year and she was still against it. I said we'd be able to have sex again after 5 years now. She won't admit it to me, but with how excited she gets when her friends get pregnant, she obviously wants more. Won't let me get rid of the crib, or the boxes of baby stuff either.
If I go to a Catholic hospital, insurance will not pay for vasectomy. Should probably try again soon, before I leave.